I read somewhere once that a person will feel "a part of" a new church once they know 6 people there. I wonder if that applies to living in a new country too? I think it does. There is something about knowing people you can call; when you need a ride somewhere, need advice on how to say something in a language foreign to you, or just need someone to talk with - whether in a new church or a new country.
The Christian community is a blessed thing to be a part of and it makes a huge difference as to how you integrate into a place. I have met people at Language School who have been in Neuchatel for 2-4 years and don't know anyone besides the friend they came here with or their spouse. It's sad, but also a great opportunity to show them what the Body of Christ is like in "everyday" life. We have made some great new friends here, from all over the world, and hopefully have shown them that life doesn't have to be lived by yourself. That is a very lonely place.
The Christian community is a blessed thing to be a part of and it makes a huge difference as to how you integrate into a place. I have met people at Language School who have been in Neuchatel for 2-4 years and don't know anyone besides the friend they came here with or their spouse. It's sad, but also a great opportunity to show them what the Body of Christ is like in "everyday" life. We have made some great new friends here, from all over the world, and hopefully have shown them that life doesn't have to be lived by yourself. That is a very lonely place.
Yep, it takes a bit of effort, but it really isn't hard to ask a couple questions and get to know someone a little better. Because, isn't that what Jesus was all about - relationships??? (Not trying to get a Bible reference in every other sentence!) So, take a step out of your comfort zone and try to talk to someone new.....you'll be surprised how much you'll learn about yourself! I know I'm learning a LOT.
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